Watts is not really the issue here ... if you don't have enough, you won't be able to make enough noise, simple. You seem like me, and only listen at reasonably low levels, so only a handful of watts might not be a deal breaker.
The key to whether it will make nice sound is the impedance of the amplifier VS the impedance curve of the speaker. If the amp and speaker impedance values aren't suitable for each other, you will have a modified frequency response, and reduced ability for the amplifier to stop the speaker (particularly around Fs).
Text books throw numbers around like ideally having a factor of 10 between amplifier output impedance and speaker impedance .... although depending on what you're doing (fullrange drivers, active speaker, etc, etc.) then these 'negatives' might not be such a big deal if you have lower.
If you're "having an amp made", then I'd strongly suggest getting it designed to the lowest output impedance practical.... Depending on the impedance curve of the ML3 of course, although BR speakers IME usually show the biggest benefit from good amp/speaker coupling.